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You both want to get married. But have you talked about what life together will actually look like? Who handles the money? How involved are your families? What happens when one of you is struggling with your faith? And are you quietly hoping something about the person you’re dating will change after the wedding? In this episode, we’re walking through 16 questions every couple should ask before saying “I do,” covering faith, family, finances, everyday life, and sex. These are practical conversations that can help you understand what you’re each expecting before you build a life together. We’ll talk about: What a Christ-centered marriage looks like in everyday life How to talk through differences in beliefs and convictions Supporting each other through seasons of doubt Family patterns you want to keep or change Setting expectations around in-laws, holidays, and parenting Getting honest about debt, spending, and sharing money What you expect your lifestyle to look like after the wedding Dividing household…

What do you do when your dating pool feels tiny and everyone knows everyone? Your ex is still at church. Your crush is friends with someone you dated. Everyone knows you went out before you’ve even decided if you like each other. And if it doesn’t work out, you’re probably still going to see them next Sunday. Dating in a small Christian community can get complicated fast. In this episode, three single Christians in their twenties get honest about what it’s actually like to date when your options feel limited and your dating life isn’t exactly private. We’ll talk about: Whether the Christian dating pool really is too small Why dating in a tight church community can feel so intimidating What to do when everyone has dated everyone Whether dating a friend’s ex should be off-limits How to handle seeing an ex in the same community Who should actually get a voice in your dating decisions Whether a small dating pool makes people settle or become too picky Why Christians keep saying “there’s no one here” How fear of…

Everyone gives marriage advice. Very few people tell you what they wish they would’ve known before they got married. What surprised them? What got harder than they expected? What got better? What do decades of marriage teach you that dating never could? In this episode, three married Christian men answer the questions they wish someone had answered before they said, “I do.” We’ll talk about: The biggest lies men believe about marriage before they get married Whether the first year of marriage is actually the hardest What every husband loses when he gets married and why it’s worth it The seasons of marriage no one posts about online Whether attraction fades or changes over the years What loving one woman for decades teaches you about commitment Why so many married men struggle alone What they wish someone had told them about sex before marriage How kids completely change your marriage Practical ways to keep your marriage strong after becoming parents What they’d tell the guy who’s been dating for years but…

Everyone says, “Date God’s way.” Almost nobody tells you what that actually looks like. What boundaries did you actually keep? How did you handle physical temptation? When did you have the hard conversations? Did you ever doubt the relationship? And how did you know they were the one? In this episode, we’re joined by another couple who dated God’s way and are now on the other side of it. Together, we’re pulling back the curtain on what Christian dating looked like behind the scenes. We’re not glossing over it, or pretending it was easy. Just sharing honest stories about what worked, what was difficult, and what we’d do all over again. We’ll talk about: The biggest mistakes Christian couples make with dating boundaries Why “How far is too far?” is the wrong question Whether protecting physical boundaries was actually worth it The hardest conversations every dating couple should have How much of your past you should share before marriage What their first major conflict revealed about each other How to tell the…

Pursuit isn’t a personality trait, it’s a skill. And so is being pursued. Too many Christian singles think one person should do all the work while the other just waits to be chosen, but healthy relationships aren’t built on passivity. They’re built on intentionality from both people. In this episode, we’re breaking down what it actually looks like to pursue someone well and what it means to receive pursuit without playing games, sending mixed signals, or disappearing into passivity. Whether you’re the one asking someone out or the one deciding whether to say yes, this conversation is packed with practical advice to help you date with clarity and confidence. We’ll talk about: The five biggest mistakes men make when pursuing a woman How women can encourage pursuit without chasing Why “playing hard to get” usually backfires What healthy leadership actually looks like in dating How to show interest without sacrificing your dignity When it’s time to define the relationship Whether women should ever make the first…

Do men really think about sex all the time? Are they actually less emotional than women? Does getting married make lust disappear? And what does “men are visual” even mean? In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men to answer the questions women ask about men when the guys aren’t in the room. No macho posturing. No stereotypes. Just an honest conversation about how men are actually wired and what women often misunderstand. From attraction and temptation to rejection, insecurity, romance, and sex inside marriage, we’re unpacking what it’s actually like to be a man from a biblical perspective. We’ll talk about: Whether men really think about sex as much as people say they do What “men are visual” actually means and where the line is between noticing and lust Whether marriage changes attraction or temptation What actually builds attraction inside of marriage How men experience rejection in dating and marriage The hidden insecurities men carry that women rarely see Whether men are really less…

When you hear the word submission, what comes to mind? For a lot of people, it’s control. Silence. Inequality. A woman losing her voice. But what if that’s not what the Bible is describing at all? In this episode, we sit down with three Christian women who have lived out biblical submission in marriage and ask the questions people are actually wrestling with. No clichés or stereotypes, just an honest conversation about what Scripture teaches and what it looks like in real life. We talk about why submission has become one of the most misunderstood ideas in Christianity and why God’s design is far more beautiful than most people realize. We’ll talk about: - What biblical submission actually is and what it isn’t - Why Ephesians 5 begins with “submit to one another” - Whether submission means a woman loses her voice or identity - What submission looks like during real disagreements - How to respond when your husband isn’t leading well - Where the line is between honoring your husband and saying “no” - Whether…

You’re texting every day. Hanging out one-on-one. Sharing your deepest thoughts. Praying together. Maybe even imagining a future together. But you’ve never actually defined the relationship. So… are you really “just friends”? In this episode, we’re taking on one of the biggest blind spots in Christian dating: the almost-relationship. The situationship. The undefined “friendship” that’s functioning like dating without the clarity, commitment, or courage. We unpack why so many Christians end up here, what it costs, and how to know if you’ve been lying to yourself about what this relationship really is. We’ll talk about: The seven biggest signs you’re actually in a situationship Why men and women end up settling for ambiguity Whether daily texting is already dating How emotional intimacy can outpace commitment Why “I’m waiting on God” can sometimes be a cover for fear The difference between being friendly and being flirty How to love someone without leading them on Whether it’s okay to date someone else if you…

What if freedom from porn is actually possible? Not behavior management. Not white-knuckling. Not “doing better this time.” Real freedom. In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men who used to struggle deeply with pornography and are now walking in freedom. Three stories. Three different seasons of life. One honest conversation about what actually works. Aaron leads the Whole Man Project and disciples men fighting for sexual integrity every week. Aiden is 22, newly married, and got free before dating his now wife. Judah is 22, single, and learning how to pursue purity while waiting for marriage. We talk about what porn took from them, what finally changed, and what they wish every struggling guy knew. We’ll talk about: The moment porn stopped being accidental and became a secret battle Why “marriage will fix it” is one of the biggest lies Christian men believe The difference between sobriety and actual freedom What finally broke the cycle after countless “I’m done for good” moments The one thing…

Our episode with 3 single Christian men answering women’s questions completely blew up. 200K+ views. Hundreds of comments. And one overwhelming response: “PLEASE do a part two.” So we did. This time, we’re going deeper. Responding to your pushback, reacting to the most-liked comments from Part 1, and answering the questions we did not get to the first time. We brought back Mark and Ariel, replaced Sam (RIP to the single men panel, he got a girlfriend 🫡), and added Jye to give a fresh perspective. And yes… this conversation gets more honest than Part 1. We’ll talk about: - Whether women making the first move is actually a turn off - When “getting to know someone” turns into leading them on - If men should date multiple women at once while figuring things out - What guys actually owe a woman if they are not interested anymore - Whether “friendship first” is wisdom or just indecision - The insecurities men deal with that women rarely see - What men actually think about a woman’s past and when it matters -…

Is modesty about honoring God… or controlling women? Can you be fashionable, feminine, confident, and still modest? Does what you wear actually matter? And what do we do with all the church baggage around “causing your brother to stumble”? In this episode, we sit down with three Christian women for an honest, nuanced, and probably overdue conversation about modesty. We’re talking about beauty, conviction, femininity, social media, lust, validation, and what modesty actually means from a biblical perspective. We’ll talk about: Whether women are responsible for men’s lust What modesty is actually about if it is not just “covering up” What “don’t cause your brother to stumble” actually means in context The difference between dressing confidently and dressing for validation Whether modesty standards should change when you’re married How Christian women practically think through what they wear If Christian women should dress differently online versus real life Why modesty conversations almost always target women…

Does oral sex count as sex? Can you slap a guy if he gropes you? Why didn’t Jesus ever get married? In this episode, we answer some of the most awkward, controversial, and honestly fascinating questions Christians secretly wonder about when it comes to sex, relationships, faith, cheating, gaslighting, and marriage. Nothing is off limits. Some of these questions made us laugh. Some got very serious very quickly. And some are the kinds of questions most Christians think about but are too nervous to ask out loud. We’ll talk about: What is actually happening when you “get the ick” Whether oral sex counts as sex and what the Bible says about sexual boundaries What grace really means and why it is not permission to keep sinning How to recognize and respond to gaslighting How to love someone who believes God hates them because they are gay Whether God chooses your spouse and how much weight to give prophetic words Whether it is okay to physically defend yourself if someone crosses a boundary Why Jesus never got…

What do men in their 50s, 60s, and 70s see about dating today that we don’t? After hearing from single men and married men, the most requested follow-up was this: bring in men who have actually lived it. Decades of marriage. Decades of mistakes, growth, and faith. So we did. We sat down with three older Christian men who have 30 to 50 years of marriage, ministry, and life behind them and asked them the same questions our generation is asking about dating, love, sex, and commitment. This conversation is less about trends and more about truth that will endure through time. We’ll talk about: How their view of attraction and what really matters has changed over time What romance actually looks like after decades of marriage The biggest mistakes they made that younger people should avoid What they see in today’s dating culture that is harmful or foolish What actually keeps a marriage alive for 30, 40, 50 years How to keep pursuing your spouse long after the honeymoon phase What they would tell their 25 year old…

In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction. In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships. We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced. And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud. We’ll talk about: Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out” How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts Porn, masturbation, and…

What if calling off your wedding isn’t failure… but obedience? Broken engagements are one of the most painful and misunderstood experiences in Christian dating. There’s pressure to push through doubts. Pressure from timelines, money already spent, other people’s expectations. And underneath all of it, a quiet question most people are afraid to say out loud: What if this isn’t right? In this episode, we sit down with three Christians who love God, wanted marriage, and still made the decision to call off their engagements. We talk about the slow realization that something was off, the internal wrestle between fear and discernment, and what it actually looks like to walk away when everything in your life is moving toward a wedding. We’ll talk about: The moment they first sensed something wasn’t right Whether they ignored red flags and why The pressure to stay when doubts started creeping in How they knew it was time to call it off instead of “fight for it” The fear of disobeying God by walking away What people…

We’re back with another episode of blind reactions to the most unhinged Christian dating stories our listeners have sent in. If you’ve been following this series, you already know the drill. We read the stories for the first time on the podcast and react in real time. And somehow the stories keep getting crazier. In this episode we react to stories like: The girl who asked God for a sign about a guy… and the next day he got arrested The guy who would only hold hands during worship songs The date that somehow ended with a trip to the dean’s office at a Christian college The man who compared a girl to a 12 passenger van while explaining why he wouldn’t date her The ministry leader who used a Samson Bible verse to try to convince a girl to marry him The relationship that came with a very intense and very prophetic future telling mom The church play that ended with someone leaving their fiancé and marrying the Grinch Some of these stories are hilarious. Some are uncomfortable. And some are genuinely cautionary…

Before you get married, you think you know what matters. After you get married, you realize what actually does. We sat down with three married Christian women to answer the questions single men and women are quietly carrying about attraction, safety, purity, commitment, and what really makes a marriage last. This is not surface level dating advice. This is what shifts in a woman’s heart after covenant… what feels different, what deepens, what gets harder, and what becomes more beautiful than you expected. We’ll talk about: Whether a woman really “just knows” he’s the one The fears they had before marriage and what actually mattered How their view of physical attraction changed over time What truly makes a woman feel safe and secure long term The difference between healthy pursuit and emotional pressure How wives want husbands to communicate about past sexual struggles Whether expecting sexual integrity is unrealistic What to say to a Christian woman anxious about the wedding night What strengthens emotional…

What do married Christian men wish someone had told them before the wedding day? Because once you step into covenant, everything shifts. We brought three married Christian men into the studio to answer women’s questions about what marriage is actually like, what changes after the honeymoon phase, and what they did not fully understand when they were single. From attraction and lust to respect, purity, romance, and real life intimacy, this conversation pulls back the curtain on how a man’s perspective evolves inside marriage. We’ll talk about: Whether a man really “just knows” she’s the one The hardest adjustment in the first year of marriage How their view of physical attraction changed after getting married The difference between attraction and lust from a married perspective What respect actually feels like to a husband Whether women are unrealistic for wanting a man who does not watch porn How married men pursue purity during seasons without sex What keeps a marriage strong long term What kills connection…

What happens when you finally stop pretending you want freedom, and actually tell God the truth? In this deeply honest conversation, Ben Fitzgerald shares his story of struggling with pornography while walking in ministry, the moment God confronted what he was still keeping as an option, and how real freedom finally came when everything was brought into the light. Ben opens up about the tension of being anointed but still broken, the night he told God, “I want this, but I do not want to want it,” and why honesty from spiritual leadership played a crucial role in his deliverance. He also shares how Bethel leadership refused to let him step into pastoral leadership while he was secretly battling pornography and how that loving but firm boundary became part of his healing. We’ll talk about: What it actually looks like when God rescues someone from addiction Why wanting freedom and being free are not the same thing The moment Ben realized pornography was still an option in his heart How honest accountability…

Single Christian men sent in their real dating questions and we brought three single Christian women into the studio to answer them honestly. From pursuit and communication to attraction, safety, boundaries, and ghosting, this episode pulls back the curtain on how Christian women actually think and feel when it comes to dating and relationships. We’ll talk about: What Christian women actually want in a future husband The biggest red flags that make women lose interest fast How women read pursuit and when it feels too intense How to tell if she is open to being pursued or just sees you as a friend How to communicate emotionally without overwhelming her What actually makes a woman feel safe and secure in a relationship First date mistakes you should absolutely avoid Why women ghost and what is really behind it How women think about attraction, looks, and turn offs How women want men to talk about porn and sexual struggles The most confusing things men do in the talking stage If you have ever felt unsure about…

What do Christian men actually want when it comes to dating, attraction, and a future wife? We brought three single Christian guys into the studio and asked them the questions single Christian women really want answered. From red flags and first dates to lust, attraction, porn, ghosting, and why guys hesitate to make a move, this episode gives you a real look inside how Christian men think when it comes to dating and relationships. We’ll talk about: What Christian men actually look for in a future wife The biggest red flags that make guys lose interest fast How men read interest and what hints actually work Why some guys take forever to ask a girl out How to tell if he is just friendly or actually interested How much physical appearance actually matters The difference between attraction and lust from a guy’s perspective Why men ghost and what is really going on there How men think about porn, purity, and self control What men are doing now to prepare for marriage The most confusing things women do in the…

You sent in the real questions about sex, temptation, emotional attachment, and dating as a Christian in 2025. And honestly? You are not alone. In this Q&A episode, we answer your toughest, most honest questions about self control, boundaries, ghosting, and what to do when the people around you are making choices you do not agree with. From friends who want a “wild phase,” to catching feelings too fast, to trying to build intimacy without crossing lines, we talk through what Scripture actually says and how to live it out without shame, fear, or hypocrisy. We’ll talk about: How to respond when a friend wants casual sex The difference between confronting a believer and loving a nonbeliever Practical ways to handle sexual temptation as a single Christian How to stop chasing validation and break unhealthy emotional attachment How to build intimacy without sexual compromise What to do when someone flirts with you and then ghosts you Why communication matters more than chemistry If you have ever felt confused,…

What happens when Christians share their most unhinged dating stories? We’re back with 10 of the wildest, cringiest, and most unbelievable moments we’ve ever heard on the podcast. In this episode, we blind react to 10 new stories from our listeners. From a guy who said “you’re not that ugly,” to someone finding out they were being pursued by a distant cousin, to a stalker from a Christian dating app, these submissions took us on a rollercoaster. We’ll also dive into: How to tell the difference between red flags and straight-up chaos Why “God told me we’re getting married” is not a green light Why some Christian environments accidentally create fear-based dating habits When someone’s spirituality becomes manipulation What healthy pursuit actually looks like If you’ve ever walked away from a date thinking “no one will believe this story,” you’re in good company. These stories will make you laugh, gasp, and maybe even feel a little better about your own dating history. 🎧 Let’s talk about it 👇…

What do you do when you find out the person you love has been hiding something from you? In this painfully honest episode, Jenna Zint sits down with us to talk about discovering her husband’s porn addiction and what actually happens to your heart, your trust, and your identity when the truth comes out. If you have ever been hit with that gut-drop moment where you start thinking, “Wait… what else don’t I know?” this conversation is for you. Jenna talks openly about the messy parts: the insecurity, the anger, the questions, the shame, the hope, and the slow, awkward rebuild that most people never talk about. We talk about: What the first 24 hours after finding out really feel like The emotions that make sense and the ones that keep you stuck How to know if it is a one-time mistake or a pattern What to do if this happens while you are dating or engaged How to ask honest questions without turning into the detective girlfriend What real freedom from porn actually looks like Red flags that someone is not ready for…

What happens when a husband realizes he’s been doing only 30% of his job? In this powerful conversation with author and pastor Danny Silk, we unpack what it really means for a man to protect, provide, and connect—and why so many marriages start to heal only when men stop acting like victims and start taking responsibility. In this episode, we sit down with Danny to talk through the hardest lessons he learned as a husband—from being told he and his wife were “clinically incompatible,” to discovering that love isn’t something you fall into or out of, it’s something you choose. We’ll talk about: What every husband gets wrong about “protecting” his wife Why love is a decision, not a feeling How to break free from blame, fear, and self-protection The one mindset shift that can save a marriage What it means to be a powerful person in relationships If you’ve ever felt stuck in your marriage, wondered if you picked the “wrong one,” or struggled to love when it’s hard, this conversation will change how you think…

What happens when real people share their craziest Christian dating stories? Buckle up, because these might be some of the most awkward, hilarious, and painfully relatable moments you’ve ever heard. In this episode, we blind react to 10 wild dating submissions from our listeners. From a “prophetic” engagement that wasn’t real, to the guy who said Judas was his favorite Bible character, to a dream that warned someone about the worst date ever… these stories had us laughing, cringing, and questioning everything. We’ll talk about: When “God told me you’re my wife” crosses the line The difference between discernment and delusion in dating How to laugh at the weirdest stories and still have hope Why faith doesn’t excuse bad behavior How to spot manipulation hiding behind spirituality If you’ve ever wondered if you’re the only one with a wild Christian dating story, you’re not. This episode will make you laugh, shake your head, and probably text your group chat immediately. 🎧 Let’s talk about it 👇…

What happens when real people open up about what they’re walking through and ask for help with love, sex, and dating? WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://youtu.be/CFjj-HWbrdk In this episode, Gen Z Christians call in to talk about the things most people are too afraid to say out loud. From wondering if they should make the first move, to battling shame from their past, to struggling with confidence and porn, to feeling stuck between chemistry and conviction, nothing is off-limits. We’ll cover: What healthy pursuit actually looks like How to rebuild confidence when you’ve been stuck in shame Why isolation feeds temptation How to move forward when your past still haunts you What to do when you feel torn between attraction and values If you’ve ever felt alone in your questions about love, lust, or loneliness, this episode will remind you that you’re not the only one, and that God still meets you right where you are. 🎧Let’s talk about it 👇🏼 ============================= Want to call into our next episode? Submit your…

If you’ve ever wondered, “Why can’t I break free from this?” it’s probably because you’ve believed a lie. WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://youtu.be/selIu5ifNJ8 From “God must be disgusted with me” to “one last time won’t matter,” these lies are the chains that keep Christians trapped in sexual sin. But the truth of Scripture exposes every one of them, and sets you free. In this episode, we’ll break down the 5 biggest lies keeping people stuck and how to replace them with God’s truth. We’ll cover: Why numbing your pain with sin never works Why marriage won’t heal your struggles How “just one last time” keeps you in bondage What the cross proves about God’s love for you Why confession and community are the only way forward You’re not the only one struggling. But you also don’t have to stay stuck. Freedom in Jesus isn’t just possible — it’s promised. 🎧Let’s talk about it 👇🏼 ============================= ⏰Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) Hook (0:50) Intro (1:50) This is WHY you’re stuck! (2:20) The Cycle of…

Pop culture has fed us some wild dating theories, but are they actually true? WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://youtu.be/Rllscn2lNio From Taylor Swift’s “invisible string” soulmate myth to the idea that “if they wanted to, they would,” we’re breaking down 6 of the craziest relationship theories people believe and what the Bible really says about them. In this episode, we’ll uncover which theories hold some truth, which ones are wrecking your relationships, and how to anchor your dating life in wisdom instead of worldly myths. We will cover: The Taxi Cab Theory and whether guys are really just waiting until their “light turns on” Why Taylor Swift is wrong about soulmates and why that matters for your faith The “If They Wanted To, They Would” theory and whether it’s healthy wisdom or toxic advice Why slow-burn relationships often end up the strongest How your childhood attachment style can impact your dating life Why the idea of multiple soulmates is dangerous for Christian relationships If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Is…

Christians really asked these questions about sex… and we actually answered them. What happens when you don’t want sex even in marriage? What if porn is part of your relationship… does that count as cheating? And how do you know if you have formed a soul tie that needs to be broken? In this episode, we are answering 10 of the spiciest anonymous questions Gen Z Christians have sent us about sex, dating, and relationships. Nothing is off the table. We will cover: How to repent and return to God after sexual sin What to do if you are married but do not desire sex The connection between coping mechanisms like vaping or self-harm and sexual temptation Whether porn is “just porn” or actual betrayal in a relationship How to navigate friendships with the opposite sex without leading someone on What soul ties really are and how to break them Managing sex drive in dating relationships How to leave a relationship well, even when the other person reacts badly Why humans and animals are different when it comes to same…

AI isn’t just changing technology, it’s changing how you approach intimacy. WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://youtu.be/YoIHF4Ks65Q What happens when the porn industry no longer needs human bodies? When desire is shaped by pixels instead of people? And when the first sexual experience for a generation might be with something that isn’t even real? In this episode, we’re tackling one of the most dangerous trends quietly taking over: AI-generated pornography. We’ll cover: Why AI porn is not the “ethical” alternative it claims to be How deepfakes and generative AI are rewiring sexual desire The lie behind “it’s better than sinning with a real person” Whether AI porn trains us to fear real intimacy Who, or what, you’re actually worshiping when you engage with it What true sexual healing looks like in a world of artificial connection If you’ve ever wondered, “Is AI porn really that bad?” or “Does it even matter if no one’s getting hurt?” this conversation is for you. You’re being trained by what you’re entertained by. Let’s…

Media doesn’t just fill your time—it forms your desires. WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://youtu.be/t26Af-zetBU There’s no such thing as “just a show.” Whether it’s Love Island, Game of Thrones, or your favorite rom-com, what we watch is shaping what we desire. The real question isn’t “can I handle it?” but “do I want to become someone who’s no longer bothered by what breaks God’s heart?” In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the most common questions we get: Should Christians watch sex scenes? We’ll cover: How to tell the difference between conviction and legalism Why “it doesn’t make me sin” isn’t the whole story What Scripture actually says about media, discernment, and transformation 5 powerful questions to ask before watching anything How to tell if you’re relaxing—or numbing out If you’ve ever asked, “Is this really a big deal?”, or “Where’s the line between grace and compromise?”—this conversation is for you. You’re being trained by what you’re entertained by. Let’s talk about what that means. 🎧 Let’s talk…

What if the thing slowly killing your spiritual life… didn’t even feel like a big deal? WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://youtu.be/I9IHtkUBQTs There’s no such thing as a small sin. But compromise rarely starts with something obvious. It starts with comfort. With convenience. With calling something “normal” that God calls sin. In this episode, we’re talking about the real reasons Christians fall into compromise, and how to get free before it’s too late. We’ll cover: • Why some people compromise and others don’t • What to do when you don’t feel convicted anymore • How to walk away from a relationship that’s pulling you away from God • What Romans 7 teaches us about repeated sin • Why calling something “no big deal” doesn’t mean it’s not deadly If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t even feel bad about this anymore,” or “it’s not technically sin”—this conversation is for you. You’re not weak, you’re at war. Let’s talk about how to win. 🎧 Let’s talk about it👇🏼 ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰…

Is there really one person out there you’re destined to marry? Or is that just something we’ve been told by movies, culture, and even church? In this episode, we take a clear, honest look at the idea of “the one” and where it actually comes from. Spoiler: it’s not the Bible. Questions we’re breaking down in this episode: Can you “miss” your person forever by making one wrong choice? If you married the wrong person, is your whole life off course now? Where did the idea of “the one” even come from? Do arranged marriages disprove the idea of “soulmates”? Why do so many people marry “the one”… and still get divorced? Is “God told me you’re the one” just Christian manipulation? Does God choose our spouse, or do we? And what’s our role in that decision? How do you decide if someone is “the one” for you? You’ll also hear Daniel’s personal story about how waiting for “the one” made this dating life difficult, examples from arranged marriages, and practical ways to shift from chasing perfection to building real…

Sex isn’t just physical… and deep down, you know that. Let’s talk about soul ties, and how to break them for good. WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZojscaKClg&t=2529s Ever felt stuck after a breakup? Like something deeper is still holding on? That might be a soul tie. In this raw and real convo, we unpack what soul ties actually are, how they form (hint: it’s not just sex), and why they can leave you feeling spiritually weighed down. We break down the Bible’s view on soul ties, how the enemy uses them to twist intimacy, and how Jesus brings full freedom and healing. Elles shares her own story of getting tangled in an unhealthy soul tie, and how God broke the cycle. If you're feeling tied to your past, this episode is your sign: God’s ready to set you free. ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:51) - Soul ties (3:51) - What even is a soul tie? (4:13) - Souls knitting together (5:23) - The context of marriage (5:33) - Sex means easy access…

Ten episodes. A whole lot of healing. In this final episode of Work Club, we’re looking back on the wild, beautiful journey of unpacking our pain, facing fears, and letting God reshape how we do relationships. From shame to identity, family wounds to freedom—we didn’t hold back. Here’s what stuck with us. What surprised us. What changed us. God didn’t just show up—He flipped the script. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:38) - Biggest Breakthroughs from WorkClub (1:49) - Sam: Fear of Success (3:40) - Erin: Getting Rid of Fear (6:00) - Cliff Jumping (7:38) - Daniel Opens Up (11:00) - Sam’s Fear Encounter (13:20) - Elles & Hard Convos (15:35) - Daniel & Changing the Narrative (21:20) - Ingram & Graduating from Shame (25:40) - God Sees Us as His Children (28:00) - Final Thoughts (28:10) - Compassion & Connection & CS Lewis (30:19) - Hindsight Brings Clarity ============================= Miss the…

Joy isn’t just a vibe—it’s a weapon. But let’s be honest: shame, comparison, and pressure steal it way too easily. In this episode of Work Club, we’re calling out the real joy-killers and sharing how we’re learning to fight for joy in a world that pushes quick fixes over deep fulfillment. From “puffy peace” to surrendering our own standards, this convo is raw, honest, and all about choosing the kind of joy that lasts. Because the joy of the Lord isn’t a cliché—it’s how we survive. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:07) - Finding Joy and Emotional Balance (1:35) - When was the last time you truly felt joyFULL? (1:41) - Erin the Stylist (2:48) - Ingram: Eye Contact (3:14) - Sam: Starting A Business (4:50) - A DEEP Sense of Fulfillment (5:24) - Building (6:09) - Puffy Peace (9:00) - Good Stewardship Brings Joy (10:02) - Don’t Waste Time Chasing Happiness (10:36) - Happiness is Consumed, but Joy is…

If your worth isn’t your talent, your title, or your output… then what is it? This week on Work Club, we’re stripping it all back—the stuff that’s replaced Jesus in our lives, the ways we tie our identity to our performance, and the pressure we put on ourselves to be enough. We’re talking about what’s left when you lose everything you leaned on. About why real self-worth isn’t earned. And about how God calls us valuable—not because of what we do, but because of who He is. This isn’t a quick fix. It’s a lifelong journey. But it’s where real freedom starts. It’s not easy. But it’s real. And it’s time. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:16) - The Grapple: Self Worth (1:35) - Ingram: Knowing v. Experiencing (2:52) - What took the place of Jesus? (4:10) - This is a Lifelong Journey (4:46) - Identity is Relational (7:10) - Stripped: What’s left when EVERYTHING is gone? (9:48) - How Do We Not Tie Our…

We all cope—but not all coping brings healing. In this episode of Work Club, we’re getting brutally honest about the stuff we run to when life hits hard. Because let’s be real: you can’t walk in freedom if you’re avoiding the very thing that needs healing. So we’re going there—into the blackhole. The numb-out habits. The distractions. The survival strategies that feel good in the moment... but keep us stuck. We’re talking about what it looks like to actually face pain—with Jesus, with Scripture, and with people who won’t let you hide. Inside this episode: What Ephesians 4 says about getting truly free How to tell if your coping is healing or hurting you And why breakthrough sometimes starts with two questions: How am I feeling? What do I need? This isn’t just about mental health. It’s about spiritual maturity. It’s about identity. It’s about letting God into the mess—not just after you’ve cleaned it up. This is Episode 7 of Work Club. And yeah, we’re still in process—but we’re done pretending we’re not.…

What if the thing you’re avoiding is the key to the connection you’re craving? We all want real connection—but you can’t have intimacy if you’re avoiding conflict. In Episode 6 of Work Club, we’re talking conflict avoidance, peacekeeping vs. peacemaking, and the real cost of staying silent. From fights to forgiveness, we’re sharing the hard convos that brought healing—and why the connection you want might be on the other side of the one you’re avoiding. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00)- Intro (2:06) - Sam’s Revelation: Fear of Success (7:55) - Why do we tend to avoid conflict? (8:15) - Conflict Avoidance (10:54) - Avoiding Conflict is Avoiding Intimacy (11:40) - Peacemakers vs Peacekeepers (14:27) - What’s the hardest conversation you’ve ever had? (15:07) - Erin’s Convo (Commitment to connection) (17:35) - Ingram’s convo (18:45) - You can only control yourself (20:00) - Recovering after the convo (21:54) -…

You don’t have to live by the lies you’ve believed—this episode is all about rewriting the story you tell yourself. We all carry stories—about our worth, our identity, and our place in the world. But what if the story playing in your head isn’t the one God’s telling? In this episode, we confront the lies that sneak into our self-talk: • Feeling like you’re not enough • Giving without getting anything back • Letting assumptions shape your relationships • Missing the small moments that could shift everything And most importantly—we talk about how God’s grace rewrites the script. If you’ve ever struggled with shame, comparison, or feeling unseen, this one’s for you. Let’s replace false narratives with God’s truth and step into the freedom of who He’s really made us to be. ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (3:00) - People are thinking the worst of me (4:40) - I could do that if ______ (5:30) - I’m not doing enough (5:58) - Reciprocation - I don’t get what I…

Shame doesn’t just make you feel bad—it messes with your head, distorts your identity, and makes you want to disappear. In this episode of Work Club, we’re calling it out. From secret struggles to perfectionism, we’re talking about the real ways shame shows up—and how Jesus sets us free. Ingram and Daniel get super honest about their own stories, how shame had them stuck, and how the Gospel broke through. We’re also unpacking the difference between guilt and shame (yes, there’s a huge difference), and why knowing who you are in Christ changes everything. If you’ve ever felt like you had to hide the messy parts of your life—this episode is for you. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! ============================= Timecodes ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:30) - What’s the Difference Between Guilt and Shame? (4:05) - Daniel’s Experience (6:32) - Shame Makes Us Hide (6:55) - Butt or Buck? (8:40) - Guilt: An Invitation Into Shame (9:30) - Ingram’s Relationship with Shame…

Why do you still feel stuck, even when you’re trying to do all the right things? We all battle fear. Fear of failure. Fear of not being enough. Fear of being too much. In episode 3 of Work Club, we’re naming the fears that keep us stuck—and exposing the lies behind them. From imposter syndrome to hyper-independence, people-pleasing, and the pressure to be perfect—we’re calling out the real stuff that shapes our relationships, our faith, and our future. This isn’t self-help. This is surrender. Because if you want to walk in freedom, you’ve got to face what’s been holding you back. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! ============================= Timecodes ============================= (0:00) - Welcome to Episode 3! (1:32) - Fear: The #1 Thing Holding You Back (3:15) - Hyper-Independence vs. Codependency: The Switch (6:03) - Fear of Insignifigance (8:37) - Self-Sufficiency Will Only Keep You Stuck (10:12) - Imposter Syndrome: Who Do You Really Think You Are? (11:50) - Sam’s Hot Take (13:34)…

We all carry baggage. The question is—what are you doing with it? In episode 2 of Work Club, we’re diving into the emotional weight we carry from past experiences, and how it shows up in our relationships today. From defensiveness in conflict to perfectionism, fear, and feeling like your needs don’t matter—we’re unpacking the hidden stuff that’s easy to ignore but hard to live with. This isn’t therapy, but it’s real. And it’s what healing looks like when you do it in community. We’re not just talking about what we should set down—we’re sharing what we’re working on laying down right now, in real time. Because if you want to live in God’s design for sex and relationships, you’ve got to get honest about what’s actually in your bag. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:21) - Identifying emotional baggage (2:35) - The role of defensiveness in hiding emotional baggage (12:00) - How to regulate…

We talk a lot about God’s design for sex and relationships—but here’s the thing most people don’t realize: You can’t live that design well if you’re carrying unprocessed pain. That’s why we’re launching Work Club—a 10-episode podcast miniseries from the team at Moral Revolution. As a group of people committed to helping Christians pursue God’s design for relationships, we know healing doesn’t happen in isolation. It happens in community. So we decided to go first. We’re coworkers, friends, and followers of Jesus, inviting you into the real, unfiltered conversations we’re having behind the scenes about what we’re working on—and how God’s working on us. Episode 1 is all about family dynamics in young adulthood. Because sometimes the hardest part of healing is facing the patterns you grew up in. We’re talking: 🔥 Breaking toxic cycles 🔥 Navigating shifting roles with your parents 🔥 Processing pain without bitterness 🔥 Honoring your family without losing yourself 🔥 Grieving people who are still in your life 🔥 How…

Valentine’s season is here, and if you’re single, you might be wondering: Am I actually ready for a relationship? In this episode, we’re bringing in the whole Moral Revolution team to dive deep into this question! We’ll unpack the non-negotiables you need before pursuing a relationship, the biggest signs that you might not be ready yet, and how healing, self-awareness, and God’s timing all play a role in healthy dating. Plus, we’re tackling listener-submitted questions like: Can I date while healing from sexual trauma? What’s a normal level of thinking about my ex before I go on more dates? Why do I feel so much anxiety about dating, and what can I do about it? Whether you’re single and unsure, healing from past relationships, or just want to date with wisdom, this conversation is for you! BONUS: We created a free quiz called “Am I Actually Ready for a Relationship?” that will help you figure out where you stand. Take the quiz here. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!…

Have you ever acted out sexually or given in to temptation and wondered, ‘Why did I do that?’ In this episode, we’re diving into the powerful connection between emotions, needs, and the choices we make. We’ll unpack why understanding your feelings and expressing your needs is essential for overcoming temptation, breaking free from cycles of sexual sin, and building healthier, whole relationships. We’re sharing practical tools like the Emotion Wheel, key questions to ask yourself when you’re facing temptation, and biblical wisdom on the importance of community. Whether you’re looking for healing or just want to deepen your relational and emotional health, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how to steward your soul with wisdom and grace. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for more support? Join the Date Well community ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/ ============================= Timecodes ============================= (0:00) - Intro (3:31) - Stewarding your soul (4:43) -…

Are you ready to level up your relationships this year? In this episode, we’re breaking down what’s in and what’s out when it comes to building healthy, God-honoring connections in 2025. From saying “yes” to first dates, setting clear boundaries, and embracing healing, to ditching overthinking, ghosting, and settling, we’re covering it all. This is your go-to guide for navigating love, dating, and singleness with clarity and conviction. Whether you’re single, dating, or just figuring it out, this episode will help you align your relationship goals with God’s plan and step confidently into the new year. Looking for more support? Join the Date Well community ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/Make sure to hit subscribe so you never miss an episode! ============================= Timecodes ============================= (0:00) - Intro (3:24) - What’s IN in 2025? (3:40) - Healthy Connection (4:55) - Healing (6:34) - Saying “yes” to first dates (8:25) - Living with conviction, even if it’s not popular (9:18) -…

What a year it’s been here at Moral Revolution! We’ve answered so many of your questions around God’s design for sex, relationships and morality. Today we’re taking a look back at some of the best conversations we had at Moral Revolution this year! Want to listen to the full episodes clipped in this episode? You can find the links below! Why You're Not Getting Free From Porn ft Aaron Zint Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Sex, Jesus, & The Conversations The Church Forgot ft Mo Isom Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. The Christian Response to Pride Month - ft/Elizabeth Woning Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Your Burning Questions About Sex, Dating, and Boundaries (part 1) Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. How To Break Up & Recover -ft/Abram Goff & Alley Vallotton Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Dealing With Relationship Anxiety - ft/Jason Vallotton Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Ex-OnlyFans Recruiter TELLS ALL (part 1) Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Don’t forget to subscribe so you…

Have you ever felt like the holiday season amplifies your loneliness? While everyone else seems surrounded by joy and connection, you might feel left out or overwhelmed by the weight of being alone. In this episode of Let’s Talk About It, we’re addressing one of the hardest parts of the holidays: loneliness. But it doesn’t have to define your season. We’re sharing five practical tools to help you navigate this time with intention and find joy, connection, and purpose.Here’s what you can expect: Why being honest about your emotions is key to healing How to create a holiday bucket list that brings joy and meaning Starting your own traditions when life feels uncertain Ways to be intentional with friends and family during this season How to finish the year strong and step into 2025 with purpose We’re also sharing the vision for our “Let’s Talk About It” end-of-year campaign, where you can join us in equipping a generation to have conversations about God’s design for sex, relationships, and life. Tune in now and…